Spiritual maturity does not come from how long it’s been since we’ve received Christ Jesus as savior but instead spiritual maturity is only made known by the fruits of the spirit being developed and displayed in our own life. What are these fruits?
Galatians 5:22-23 But the Holy Spirit produces this kind of fruit in our lives: love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, 23 gentleness, and self-control. There is no law against these things!
In this life we face many trials and test, most often these come about because of our own sinful desires. If we choose to stand for Christ Jesus then our spirit is strengthened and we mature but should we give in to the ways of our flesh with bitterness, strife, envy, greed, unforgiveness, anger, hatred, and lust then we tear down the very thing which God has purposed in our lives for good and we do not know Him. It is for this reason there is a falling away from Christ Jesus.
Being spiritually mature does not mean we are never tempted but instead it means when these temptations come we choose to feed the spirit and not our flesh. What we feed is what becomes stronger. If you want to be spiritually mature then feed your spirit and there will come a time when these temptations will no longer have the same pull on you; no the temptations will not leave us in this life but if you feed the spirit and not the flesh they will lose their power over you.
You want a strong prayer life? James 5:16 “Confess your sins to each other and pray for each other so that you may be healed. The earnest prayer of a righteous person has great power and produces wonderful results.” The earnest prayers of the righteous has great power and produces wonderful results, are you hearing this, for this is good news! The Holy Spirit gives understanding, is the Bible difficult to understand or is it that we’ve been feeding the flesh for so long we have starved our own spirit and its in a daze and can no longer comprehend what the Spirit of God is saying? How can the blind lead the blind? For if we are to make it home in the spirit realm we need a guide.
Wake up you mighty men and women of faith! 2 Timothy 1:7 “For God has not given us a spirit of fear and timidity, but of power, love, and self-discipline.” Do not let the enemy of God hold you down any longer. For it is faith that moves God to action. When you pray do it as a child of the King, do not beg or plead but simply ask and by faith and with expectation look for God’s hand to move in your situation. How would it make you feel as a parent if your child continued to beg you for something yet you told them you would do it? You might be sad that they don’t believe you will do what you said or it could cause you to wait until they were ready to receive. The waiting is a test to see if we will trust, are you passing the test? Turn it around how would you feel as a parent if your child asked, you said you would, and before they received what they asked for every time you saw them they were thankful, even though it had not come to pass yet. Would that not make you want to give it to them all the more? How much more will your Heavenly Father give good gifts to those who ask? (Matthew 7:11). James 1:6 “But when you ask, you must believe that God will do it. You must not doubt and think, `Perhaps God will not do it.' A person who doubts is like a wave on the sea. The wind drives it this way and that way.”
We must understand when our heart is right (earnest) and we have put ourselves in alignment with God’s will (we know His will by our relationship with Him, which comes through prayer and the reading of His Word) it is His great pleasure to answer those prayers, for it is by this that our faith grows but understand He loves us too much to always say “yes”, our hearts must be set on pleasing and following Him even when the answer is “no”. As our Father He knows what's best for His children, again are we trusting Him?
Always be thankful and with humility and boldness live life expecting God’s favor, all the while understanding our need for His provisions, for I am desperate for His presence in my life, at all times. When God’s people live in the favor of our Lord, our Father, and God the world will take notice and by this His name will be glorified through out all the earth. You are the Master's vessel and when we are serving His purpose we are fully alive and He is glorified.